Insert the following code in your site or facebook page:

<p><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0" width="540" height="405" id="chat" align="middle">

                    <param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />

                    <param name="movie" value="http://www.xatech.com/web_gear/chat/chat.swf" />

                    <param name="quality" value="high" />

                    <param name="bgcolor" value="#000000" />

                    <param name="FlashVars" value="id=4&xc=2336&cn=2114321258&gn=Flirt" />

<embed src="http://www.xatech.com/web_gear/chat/chat.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#000000" width="540" height="405" name="chat" FlashVars="id=4&xc=2336&cn=2114321258&gn=Flirt" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://xat.com/update_flash.shtml" /></object></p>